Judaism - Religion - Othodox Jews - Yeshiva day Schools - Education and Schools - New York Times

A number of years ago, I went to my 10th high-school reunion, in the backyard of the one classmate whose parents had a pool. Lots of my classmates were there. Almost all were married, and many already had kids. This was not as unusual as it might seem, since I went to a yeshiva day school, and nearly everyone remained Orthodox. I brought my girlfriend. At the end, we all crowded into a big group photo, shot by the school photographer, who had taken our pictures from first grade through graduation. When the alumni newsletter came around a few months later, I happened to notice the photo. I looked, then looked again. My girlfriend and I were nowhere to be found. [read more]

Noah Feldman, a contributing writer for the magazine, is a law
professor at Harvard University and adjunct senior fellow at the
Council on Foreign Relations.